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It was so great!! Of course there were a few tears too. I would recommend Faucet of Tears to any pet lovers. It was a great sequel to Gabby. Hope you are planning on more. Six in ten African-Americans depart without one. Among the half of entering students fortunate enough to get through college, millions go into debt for two-year associate degrees. Community colleges currently enroll With visions of making big bucks as a Web designer, she didn't give much thought to the interest rate on her loan from Sallie Mae , the Fannie Mae of student lending. Kratzer didn't know it at the time, but she was part of an experiment that has proved disastrous for borrowers and shareholders of Sallie's parent, SLM Corp.
Sallie Mae was set up by the government in and began privatizing its ownership in It began nontraditional lending in the easy-money heyday of , when it cut deals with dozens of trade schools to become their preferred subprime student lender. The bill arrived last year after nontraditional borrowers began entering the workforce.
It expects nontraditional-loan writeoffs to peak this year. Lord, who was unavailable for comment, is a year company veteran. Sallie largely abandoned nontraditional lending last January. That's little consolation to Kratzer. Shortly after graduating with an associate of arts degree, she discovered that the high-paying jobs she'd hoped to qualify for go to people with bachelor's degrees and years of experience.
After a bout of unemployment, when she lived off credit cards, Kratzer recently found an hourly job as a clerk at a magazine, where she earns less than the average high school grad. She says collection agents for Sallie and others hound her to hit up relatives for the money she owes. They don't get seen. They don't get heard.
Mindy Babbitt entered Davenport University in her mids to study accounting. Instead, the entry-level job her bachelor's degree got her barely covered living expenses. Babbitt deferred loan repayments and was then laid off for a time. Now 41 and living in Plainwell, Mich. Babbitt is no oddity. In fact, one in four college grads takes home considerably less than the top quartile of high school grads, according to a College Board study. Even some people with doctorates earn less than people without so much as an associate degree, it shows. Of course, not all history majors want to become historians.
For many a bachelor's degree is nothing but a stepping-stone to a professional degree.
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Joel Kellum is one of those. After graduating from the University of Virginia, he got into California Western. Kellum approached a law professor about the wisdom of borrowing for the tuition. Kellum filled out a fat packet of forms in his school's financial aid office. Weeks later, he says, he got a call asking him to sign over a check to the school without any discussion of the loan terms. Kellum complied.
Only after he graduated, and his payments came due, did he dig into the details. However, the probability of it happening is slim-to-none. The narcissist is a skilled and convincing actor. After all, they fooled you into believing that you were the love of their life , perhaps even their past lives. How long were they able to keep up the charade?
Possibly years? Then, after their mask started slipping, they likely expected you to keep up appearances in front of everyone. Still yet, when you discovered their lies, online dating profiles, and infidelities, they convinced you that they had reasonable justifications for it all. That somehow, in spite of their love crimes, they still wanted you and were in love with you. What better way to do that than to trap a new supply into their web of deception and get them to drink the Kool-Aid?
Thus starts a fresh round of love-bombing, complete with vacations, church with the kids, and an engagement ring. The narcissist may seem happier in the new relationship, and there is a very simple reason for this. The new partner simply does not know the narcissist the way you do. In turn, the new supply is mirroring back to the narcissist exactly what the narcissist needs in order to feel like the best partner and lover that anyone could ever have in their life. At first, the narcissist will put forth painstaking effort to keep this charade going because it fills the eternal emptiness the narcissist feels.
However, as time passes, all the acting and future-faking will wear on the narcissist as the new partner or friend reveals themselves to be just an ordinary human, same as everybody else and, in doing so, disappoints the narcissist just as everyone else has. Every relationship is an epic failure to narcissistic individuals because their expectations are unviable. They are expecting the other person to be perfect, and by association to make them perfect. They always do. All Rights Reserved. Includes expert advice and tips for encouragement and support. Now check your email to confirm your spot in the mini-course and get your Beginner's Healing Toolkit now!
Adobe Reader is required as this is a PDF document. Check the bottom of your screen for an instant download or your downloads folder! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Thank you for the article! I felt sick in the stomach tonight when I came across the narcissist I knew and his new supply FB Profile. I called him out on his BS over 12mths ago and our friendship never ended on good terms.
The new supply is from the same country as me, looks like me and dresses like me. When I visited him in his Country he wanted to return with me back to my country. You can tell by the images she is smitten with him… I can feel the pain already of what she will be going through down the road when that time comes.
And knowing what his doing to her is to also get back at me. I have reached out to him, which is a HUGE mistake but now he will not reply to me. I feel so weak and hurt. How do I stop feeling so obsessed and jealous now that he seems so happy? My ex was having affair with woman 30 yrs younger than we both are. He suddenly abandoned me for her. She pursued him and was relentless in pushing him to leave me.
Viola — Presto Chango — I laughed, that to me was so funny, it was the way it was written — but very very true. Everybody says how happy he and she are, and how lucky he was to find her. I want so badly to get to the point where I no longer care. My ex has already been married twice and divorced once since our split. The first marriage after me did not even last a year. These are not relationships meant to survive and they are certainly not healthy relationships.
Rosie — the new wife will be as happy as you were, if that is of any help — in other words, she will be miserable — hopefully you will wake up and realise all those suitcases you were carrying on your back will be lifted — I also believe people who have to broadcast how happy they are, are trying to prove to themselves how happy they are NOT.
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She got me so sick with acid reflux I had to go the the emergency room after not sleeping for weeks and losing 15 pounds. When I asked her to please take me she said she would but not stay with me. Who does that! The last six months the way she acted was like jekle and hide I could t believe it! The first person she met after i left 3 weeks saw it played out on social media still together 4 years now.
Of course being empathetic I feel sorry for the victim. Best article yet. Getting to this point has been hard but am feeling better each day. Hang in there, you will see light at the end of the tunnel. Well done. It is hard and you feel very alone at times but it is absolutely the right thing to do. They will not change a d have no awareness that they are making your life utterly miserable xx.
Well my ex Narc got exactly what he wanted and deserve all at the same time. Now he found or had all along something that was totally the opposite of me and now he is stuck with her. And being stuck with someone is a terrible way to live especially if you are not happy, and with him getting older and the good looks are gone, he stuck with her.
He better hope that she stay around when the health problems start creeping in. My ex has also tried to replace me. He has even gone so far as to marry a coworker. I hope he enjoys his new financial burden. I am so thankful for this article!!! It came at just the right time for me!!! Thank you so much for the insight into these disordered individuals that try to wreck lives!!!! Well written, thank you.
I feel desperately sorry for his new supply. She looks like a nice person and so in love with him, far more than I ever did. The hurt that is coming is horrible to imagine. I fought with him every inch of the way which he seemed to love. I think all my anger is towards me for being such a colossal idiot in so many ways. Also the anger towards my upbringing for not making me love myself enough to deserve much better in life. But I am working on it. I feel your pain, I broke it up with mine back in June and the pain is unreal, I keep thinking of the time he did so much for me, my kids and buying gifts..
I could not believe that a man so great could be alone at the age of I recently found out he got into a new relationship with a woman 20 years younger, I wont deny it, it killed me to see them so happy on facebook, it reminded me of the times I was so happy with him. For some reason we tend to remember more the good times than the bad and the bad were many…a part of me feels like he found her way before I ended with me, My gut feeling is that he was done with me way before and was keeping me hooked.
He used his kids a lot to manipulate me because he knew I love them. Yes one of the reasons I stayed so long as I was worried about his son when he stayed with him at weekends, although his son lived with his mother a very weird person. I waited until his son turned 14 and could cope better. But staying was making me unwell and fortunately I had my own home luckily which I had kept despite thinking I could sell it etc.
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I will never not listen to them again. All the best. We are strong. They are weak. Weasel is a good word for the narc. Yes, they are setting up for an epic fail with their new supply. Yes, it will hurt to find out. But I must move forward not backward. I know that the narc will reap what they have sown. I know he is not sorry. He could care less. There will never be an apology or closure. Only lies, lies and more lies. I know he is envious and jealous and does not know what real love is and is an evil hypocrite and manipulator.
Good riddance! I agree with you, they are setting themselves up for an epic fail. Then, at some point, you receive outright requests or invitations for them to see you. In my case, the narc did the discard after miraculously finding an Adonis. Many months later, my prediction was confirmed when she displayed some desperate behavior when she contacted me.
This is a person for whom I had cared for deeply, but her lying, deception, duplicity, and disloyalty make it ultimately impossible for me to be in contact with her. Kim Saeed really calls it correctly on people with this disorder. I was married to a man for 3. At first I blamed myself for everything and wanted everything to work because i still loved him. He even told me everything was my fault. He told me he gave me a play by play book of what to do to make it work. Legal processes are always expensive and unpleasant. The ex has been with my replacement for 3 years now, and I still wonder how they can still be together, which leads me to assume he must be treating her well.
Ladies and Gents, Trust me, Karma bus will come along…. Took a couple of years for me, but it came running! Best part? Stay strong! Wow this is hitting the spot! My ex marries his new supply this month, after knowing her only a year and ticking all the boxes you say here! Great timing — I needed to read this right now, thank you.
Current situation. I caught my ex of 20 years cheating february 2nd at a hotel, I kicked him out long story short he is now living in another motel with her. Today he told a friend of mine that he has a girl but that he loves me and for her to relay that to me! Today is day 16 n i went thru all the stages…crying, no sleep, not eating, why me, hate, anger, i miss him so much, contact and now im disgusted. Hes never coming back, I refuse.
Is it possible that he can have some love? I mean 20 years. I suspect hes a narcissist but hes also a mean alcoholic. I have cut all ties and will continue. He is trouble, been to prison, smokes pot, drinks excessively n i very materialistic, always has to be dressed real nice, drives a nice car n has a good job. Perfect match but told my friend today that he cant take my mindgames!
Im done. In reply to your question, there is something called Trauma Bonding that occurs. Look it up, educate yourself about it and you will understand. There are MANY reasons why an abused woman stays, again, educate yourself about it. The only people who can possible completely understand are the ones who have lived it. I am very familiar with trauma-bonding.
The reason I started this blog is that I was married to a narcissistic man for eight years and suffered greatly from trauma-bonding. Trauma-bonding makes it hard to leave, sure, but not impossible. So very true. Sad to say that at my age , 62 as of now that I lived 3 long years dating a narcissist. Of course it was on and off, when his new supply left him.
Several times it was more than one supply. And he had so many new supplies going at one time that it was difficult for him to hide it. I still am angry with myself to allow him to manipulate me over and over again. I think I had so much money and time invested in him I wanted it to work. I could guarantee that after 4 or 5 months his newest supply was gone and he would try to contact me again. But no more.
He is extremely violent and abusive but I refuse to run scared anymore. I can relate … And I only wanted to wish you strength and courage during your healing time ahead. When I did, i noticed he would send these messages via fb on his open page that he would send to me via fb. The same exact spelling and everything.
I assume it was to the new supply he used to humiliate me with and who was happy to go along with him in the humiliation of me. I also noticed she is no longer friends with him on fb. I guess the cycle just continues. I almost feel sorry for her. Ive lived this more times than I would like to think. I am so sad for so many years I thought this was my fault my heart hurts. So confused. I see one comment that you left in July. My narcissist had this other woman on the side for over a year while he was with me.
She agreed to be a secret. When I found out about her I told her she can have him and that I would even gift wrap him for her. I even saw all the texts she sent him begging him to come back etc. And she had the nerve to tell me I had low self esteem. No, I kicked him out and got the toxic out of my life.
I did just that I was with the Narcissists for ten months and I was deeply in love with him but I saw the lies and suspected him of cheating and he was verbally abusive and he yelled at me and screamed at me. No call from him for a whole month. I then saw pictures of him and the new supply on his fb page. In a year and a half he freely posted one pic of us 2 others after I told him I thought he was embarrassed of me and was trying to hide me.
He had been talking to other women on fb and old supply at least 2 via the phone. God only knows what else he was doing I never caught. I called and told him I thought he was lying about possibly having cancer and blew up on him and about his new gf thru text on his phone. It put me over the edge. I was so angry at her and him. I hung up on her and then called him and realized 5 min in he had me on speakerphone with her sitting next to him!
Even after all that, I keep thinking…will cancer or even the scare of cancer change him into a man better then what he never was for me? A man with actual feelings and care for her? By the way, the new gf is 14 years younger than him, has no education same as him , no career, 2 kids by a convicted child molester convicted before they had the kids , no money same as him , and lives in another state 5 hrs away. I may have answered my own question. I just need to hear someone else say it…has he changed? I think you have answered your own question. Without knowing more about your situation and going only on what you left here on the site, there are numerous red flags in his behavior.
Dear Abby, your narcissist seems like a twin of my ex narc. Their bs is infinite and these lies with terminal diseases are very normal in them. I got to see it with 2 ex narcissistic boyfriends. The first was my first boyfriend and he always said he had some terminal cancer or threatened with suicide, but the same night after leaving my house telling me he will throw himself from the bridge, he would go to sleep with his new supply.
He is still alive 20 years after and he kept bothering me several times more during these years but I never answered. Enough is enough. The second one is my latest ex. The first months were paradise, but as he lived in another city, he started to see another woman. False allarm, like in your case. They are such players! I prepared my bags to go and see him, but guess what? He was obviously very well taken care of by his new supply. We have to leave them behind like they never existed because we are far better than them. Mine told me she was pregnant. She knows that was a dream of mine but after testicular cancer the chances of being able to have one with her were none.
I missed her so much that I believed her wholeheartedly. Then after two months she told me she may have lost it because I stressed her out too much. I was devastated and I tipped toed around her to not let her be stressed. A few months after that she left me again and it all started all over again. She definitely plays on my fear of abandonment. And I go back every time. I believe that there are more Narcissists today then there ever was when I was growing up you heard of selfish people that we called egotistical but no one had any idea what a Narc was.
I agree. She has completely wrecked my life. But everyday is a struggle just to breathe or want to breathe. I have a question my ex is in a relationship with the girl that would frequently message him on instagram. He was very interested in enlightenment and sharing information etc… So I let is slide. I stopped checking his messages. I still wanted a relationship with him. I said understandable. We were together for six months… knew him for 2 years the guy I was dating was completely different than the guy I was dealing with after we broke up.
Hi Annica. Thanks for stopping by and commenting. He may be trying to show off to make you jealous, but ultimately, his actions are juvenile and indicative of someone who would ruin you if you continue to pursue him. The best thing you can do is cut your losses, stop watching him on social media, and move on with your life. Annica This man is a Narcissists there were all the signs of him being a Narc the leaving you abruptly the leaving you hanging on and posting pictures on face book doing all the things with the new victim that he would not do with you did you not read the story above about what Narcissists do.
He is a narcissist. He lied to you. Said she was just a friend. Enlightment conversations? What kind of bs is this? He triangulated you. Now he is gaslighting you. Erase him from your social media. Dissapear from his life. As long as she bends for all her wants, she never confronts him and thinks he is the best thing since slice bread then yes he will be happier. Not true. Narcs always need new supply. They get bored with the same regardless of how loyal their partner is. I had 3 ex narc in my life and let each one of them go. Narc one left him- hid life now is not going well. Narc two left him- his life really is not going good.
He lost everything and started smoking crack. Narc 3 left him- life not going well either. He still trying to get back with me for something but I pay him no mind. Once you go no contact, you have to cleanse yourself of them. Font think they are skipping into the sunset because they are not. It just a false outcome if they say they are happy.
Reading your comment makes me feel a little bit better about my situation. I hope his marriage fails and crap just starts falling apart as it should have in the beginning. I have a great deal of empathy for your situation, Lynette. But y evil twin has a few thoughts.
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This is the part where we all book appointments for makeovers at MAC and take stock. We were together for 8 years and I always felt this inexplicable fear — like a panic. He had me and everyone convinced I was crazy. Until when the mountain of lies began to crumble and I found evidence of rampant cheating throughout our whole relationship — leaving work to meet hookers, traveling to Central America with prostitutes, sleeping with my friends and our employees, and so on and so on… Once I found the truth, the mask was gone.
He became truly cruel and utterly unloving at all times. It was hell because at that time I was reeling from the trauma of these discoveries and trying to work on the marriage, while he sat there and ignored or insulted me. I was baffled. I finally left one day without any warning. I could not take another circular conversation, I could not take the blame one more time. I had planned on separating temporarily but he immediately changed the locks on the house and locked me out of the bank accounts.
I hired a lawyer just to help get me access to my things. I feel better than I knew possible.